If your new online friend or romantic interest says they have an emergency and need money, it’s probably not just bad luck. It’s more likely they’re a scammer trying to take your money. So, how can you tell if an online “friend” is a fraud?
It’s hard to know who people really are when you meet them online. Scammers create fake profiles on social media, as well as game and dating sites. They might send you a friend request, start a conversation and friendship, chatting or texting daily. Surprisingly soon, they might say they’re in love with you. Then, suddenly, they’ll have an expensive emergency — a lost job, failed business, or sister who needs an operation — and appeal to you for gift cards, money transfers, even cryptocurrency.
Six simple tips how to keep yourself safe on a dating site
Here are some sure signs you’re dealing with a romance scammer:
- They can’t meet you in person. It’s an early warning sign if they can’t meet because they’re outside the country on an oil rig, in the military, or with an international organization. Those are lies.
- They ask you for money. That’s always a scam. No matter the so-called emergency, they’re only trying to steal your money.
- They tell you how to send the money. Which is exactly what scammers do, focusing on ways to get your money quickly. Where it’s also hard for you to get it back. (Crypto, gift cards, wire transfer, payment apps…)
If you suspect someone is a scammer, cut off all contact. Report them to the social media platform, game site, or dating site. Additionally, inform the FTC at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.
